Not to say my marriage is perfect, or to say that we do everything right and have everything figured out, I just want to help other young couples going through a few things that we go through. So I am back to my journal days, I missed it, so time to do what I enjoy, helping others! Hope you enjoy the blog!
23 August 2011
No "I" in Us
Very often, during a relationship there will be moments when selfishness arises. Look at your relationship as a team, as if you are as one. Make sure you share; you cannot be one sided any more. When you make a decision you should ask yourself 2 things. Will my partner be interested, and should I ask them before I go ahead and do this. Doing this will avoid a lot of confrontation. Just think of how rude it would be for you to come home from work and your partner has cooked, for themselves. You have been at work all day, haven’t eaten at all and you come home to this, ignorant huh? Be considerate, stop only thinking of yourself. There are too many people in the world that will do right by your partner, so if you really love them, act as if you care about their being. Think about others, just remember, there is no “I” in “US”, it will save a lot of time and arguing if you take the time out to ask just one of those two questions.
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