Communication Is The Key

Most new relationships do not succeed because there is not enough talking. Talking does not consist of having conversations about your likes and dislikes, I mean really have a conversation. The first few months are the hardest. You have to get to know your new friend, mainly what they like, what they don’t like, what makes them mad and what makes them happy. Now to the grimy stuff!! You have to get all the details of what they have done and what you have done. I mean how many partners they had, how many kids they have, do they work, have a car; you have to get it all! As much as if may hurt you (WOMEN) you still have to know this. If he is still friends with his ex or who his friends are (so you do not accuse him of cheating when maybe his best friend is a female). Most of the time, not communicating will kill a relationship at the beginning. That is when assumptions begin, and arguments cause the end. So many of us young women have probably missed out on the man of our dreams only because of the lack of communication going on in the relationship. The more you talk the more information you gain. For a relationship to go to the next level you must gain as much information as possible and when you gain it, make sure you remember it. Men may act like they don’t care or have emotions, but if you forget something they said they will let you know how much that hurts them. Not saying they are going to burst in tears, but if they are caught cheating that is the first thing they will say; “You don’t care about me, or what I say so I found someone who does”. To tell you the truth, we are the reason men run away from long-term relationships. We run them away. If you just relax and not force too much on a man, he will realize how special and unique you are, and the he needs you, to the point where he will give you just as much love and attention that you are looking for.